Heh, good old Matt back in S'pore for about 9 days, how could I reject him when he was available to meet me at NUS rite? It's been months since the 4 of us met up for a dinner just before Matt left a few months ago. Had lunch wif him at Grinning Gecko and man, he's still the same as ever. Outspoken, loud and seems to be enjoying life in the States. To think he was here mainly for his gf, how sweet, unless I heard wrongly. *shrug* (crap, should've taken a pic wif him or something)
Well, I seem to be still the same to him, which he says is probably a good thing (I wonder why, lol). Our chat sorta brought things into perspective and made me realise how different the four of us are (Matt, Kenneth, Hui Jian and me). Be it in terms of personality, interests, our goals and stuff, our studies, very very different. I wonder how the hell we came together as a clique back in JC days eh. I guess it's cos we're slightly different from those "cool guys" type like Jerry, Remus, Peck Teng and gang eh.
Well, Hui Jian still seems to be a strange person to me, haha. I'm sure it kinda saddens Matt to hear tt the 3 of us nvr met up even though we're all still in S'pore eh. He can't meet us since he's in the States mahz, lol. Was kinda surprised he bothered to contact me and wana meet up really. He's living life to the fullest, earning big bucks (he's already rich btw, lol), doing well in studies and doing stuff he can't possibly do in S'pore.(like snowboarding, and he's gonna try out sky diving soon i think)
Kenneth seems to be dying wif the workload wif Law, nvr chat wif him for quite some time too. And good old Hui Jian, in love wif a gal who's attached. He seems to be leading a complicated life all the time, but the sure thing is he's smart :) Sometimes I kinda wonder whether I'm not ambitious enough. Used to really hope to jus lead a normal life (normal is kinda subjective of course)... sometimes when you think too much, the what-ifs tend to be limitless... hmm... "You should start thinking of investments", "You should break out of your comfort zone" so says Matt...
I guess I'm still jus uncertain as to what I really want, been thinking abt it all along the moment I entered Army and had to decide what course to pursue in uni, but the spark jus hasn't ignited... Hopefully things can get clearer nxt sem when I start engaging in a lot more Chem Eng modules (the really relevant stuff) unlike this sem when they're all jus seem like prepartory modules wif little relevance 'cept maybe CN1111...not like I'm doing as well as I hoped to lar, hehe =P
Recently was chatting wif Jeff and man, did he make a good point. We asked him how it works out so perfectly between him and Wenli... both are sooooo busy wif their own stuff, but their relationship is simply rock-solid. Most probably the first couple to get married in my opinion, hehe.
Taking the discussion further than jus relationship, even after getting married, wat else is there in common besides the child? Both still do the same work, each still have the same grp of friends, whether there's overlapping is not impt of course. He mentions abt it being the blending of 2 seperate lives together instead of adjusting to suit which I pretty much agree though I feel slight adjustments are definitely necessary lar, haha. A very gd new pointer I've nvr heard of before... ;)
*back to reality wif a "THUD"* Now to get busy wif mugging for the exams le. 3 wks to go. Hope there's a chance of redemption, hehe. Gd luck to all!
